My wife has two step-children she has never met. In the 9 years we’ve been together, my ex has prevented any form of communication with my children. Michèle has two daughters of her own that we’ve raised together and I’m very proud of both of them. But I find it a shame that she’s never had the opportunity or privilege to know how it feels to have a son.
So I just wanted Michèle to know, she has a fantastic son. Her only son she’s never had. It’s a shame really. Not only is she missing out on raising a good boy, Joseph is missing out on a great mother. This is all due to a very selfish woman that is afraid to admit her own faults and fears. Instead of giving our children love, my ex has used fear as a weapon to sculpt our children. I have hope that one day, they will reach out. Then they will know how much they have meant to us all these years.
Until that happens, I will focus on the children I’m responsible for. I will love and care for Michèle to the best of my ability. She supports me with Parental Alienation Syndrome. She attends meetings and lifts me up.
I’ll choose hope.
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i read all the very sad stories, and yet not one with a happy ending. there is no justice because there are no laws yet. but the courts have just begun to be able to allow alienation in as a form of child abuse.
elizabeth kingston
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i would love to write my story. it’s different, the alienation is cult like.
i’m beyond devastated and am like a robot.
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Elizabeth, I would hope mine isn’t considered a sad story. I have found a happy ending. Despite the hardships I’ve pushed on and continued to live. I celebrated three years sobriety in August. I am working at a dream job. My (current) wife loves me very much. Our two daughters have grown into beautiful young women and going out into the world to make a name for themselves. My two babies I haven’t seen in 13 years are both in college. I still haven’t heard from them, but I can wait until they are ready. Most importantly, I’ve found serenity and peace of mind. I’ve detailed my whole journey in letters to my kids. I have a URL with my own name so they can easily find it. Feel free to read them at markusrandel.com.
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