It was established long ago that presents weren’t going to be accepted if I sent them. So for the last several years, I always put the same presents under my Christmas tree for my two kids. This year for their birthdays, I’ve decided to make a video of something special and share it online. That… Continue reading Celebrating Birthdays
One of the most frustrating experiences I go through is the discrepancy facing the non-custodial parent. There are laws in place that are supposed to enforce child support (CS) and visitation rights. Yet, CS gets enforced by the police. Visitation support is only enforced by personal lawyers (which I can’t afford). I can speak first hand… Continue reading Child Support vs. Visitation
There are times I just can’t face it. Recently my current wife has gotten involved with Parental Alienation groups to help support me. I follow along, but the pain inside is so deep it’s hard for me to participate. I’ll write my daily letters to the kids. But that is a passive activism. Sometimes, I… Continue reading Giving up
This was posted anonymously to the Father’s Rights FB page. I’m not alone. There is so much pain. “I had to walk away. I couldn’t afford an attorney. The judge favored her in every ruling. … It was a joke. It’s been years now my children were stolen. Not a day goes by I don’t… Continue reading Posted Anonymously
The initial blow when I heard my children didn’t want to talk to me anymore was hard. As I mentioned before, I ended up in psych wards and eventually homeless. I was in despair. But I eventually found a home at the Salvation Army. They have a program for adult males called the Adult Rehab… Continue reading How I survived alienation
I got to talk to my children twice by phone when the ex first took them away. After that, the phone was never answered. When I got the call from CPS with the accusations, I sat down on my front porch and froze. I reached out for help. Then I drank a beer… and many… Continue reading The Effects of Parental Alienation
Not allowed access to my children is probably one of the hardest things I’ve experienced in my life. This is coming from a long life of alienation. My ex demanded I alienate my own parents just so she had more control over me. I guess this is karma coming back at me. As soon as… Continue reading Perspectives of an Alienated Father
I came across this on the Father’s Rights Facebook page. Wonderful words of advice I have been a judge on the divorce bench for 16 years, and have watched the wreckage of the corrosive legacy of parental alienation and visitation interference play out over decades. We have no statistics for measuring this group, because the… Continue reading By Judge Michele Lowrance
I lived with my ex for 14 years and had two beautiful children with her. To keep the relationship going, I subscribed to her views on religion, politics, and pretty much everything. I basically tried to be the person she wanted to be with instead of the person I am. This meant excluding my birth… Continue reading My History with Parental Alienation
I found a really good article about false accusations at http://www.familylawexpress.com.au/family-law-news/children/childsupport/mothers-faking-domestic-violence-to-keep-children-child-support-inquiry-told/2355/ It’s a good read, but never supports a solution. The solution is to give fathers the same representation by the state to enforce visitation as the mothers get to collect child support. The solution is if an accused abuser is shown to be innocent,… Continue reading At least people are seeing it
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