I have tickets to go see the Rocky Horror Picture Show this weekend. I was hesitant to mention it my letter to the kids. Then it hit me… I was my youngest’s age (14) when I first saw it. The last time I saw my children, they were 5 and 7. They are now 14… Continue reading Dealing With Time
My wife has two step-children she has never met. In the 9 years we’ve been together, my ex has prevented any form of communication with my children. Michèle has two daughters of her own that we’ve raised together and I’m very proud of both of them. But I find it a shame that she’s never… Continue reading Children Never Met
When I changed the theme of this blog to focus on Parental Alienation, I had no clue to the number of people out there that suffer the same as me. In my nine years of solitude from my children, I’ve been put through a series of tests. I would so much like to confront their… Continue reading We Are Not Alone
Every day is a new challenge. I have a cold and don’t feel well. I can use that as an excuse or see it as a challenge. It’s my choice. The same goes with missing my children. I can either cry or do something productive with the pain. I choose the latter. I’ve cried enough.… Continue reading Getting through the day
When I was a kid, I had a science class where I built a model rocket. We built our own launch pads and ignition systems too. So when Joseph turned 7, I bought him a kit and assembled a launch system for him. Of course I bought the biggest engine that would fit in it. … Continue reading Blasting off
I know I’ve put most of my story in previous posts. But the daily effects still knock me for a loop. I’m scheduled for a psychiatrist in a few weeks. I’ll try to be good and be honest. I hope I can find a few answers on how to deal with my issues. I’m on… Continue reading Trying to Live With Parental Alienation
I’ve recently joined a Facebook group that is fighting against Parental Alienation. Initially, I was excited that this group is out there supporting people like me. Then I started reading the posts calling for action. I found myself frozen with fear. I had to pause to try and understand this feeling. Why don’t I jump… Continue reading Why It’s So Hard
It was established long ago that presents weren’t going to be accepted if I sent them. So for the last several years, I always put the same presents under my Christmas tree for my two kids. This year for their birthdays, I’ve decided to make a video of something special and share it online. That… Continue reading Celebrating Birthdays
One of the most frustrating experiences I go through is the discrepancy facing the non-custodial parent. There are laws in place that are supposed to enforce child support (CS) and visitation rights. Yet, CS gets enforced by the police. Visitation support is only enforced by personal lawyers (which I can’t afford). I can speak first hand… Continue reading Child Support vs. Visitation
There are times I just can’t face it. Recently my current wife has gotten involved with Parental Alienation groups to help support me. I follow along, but the pain inside is so deep it’s hard for me to participate. I’ll write my daily letters to the kids. But that is a passive activism. Sometimes, I… Continue reading Giving up
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